Jacob Gregory Jr. born 22 Feb 1858 Luzerne Co, VA, s/o Jacob M. Gregory (d. 10 Sep 1858) and Amy Benscoter (d. 04 Oct 1858) was with his maternal uncle, Anthony Benscoter's family in the 1860 Census of Union Twp, Luzerne Co, VA.My records show his sister Lola S. born 24 Sep 1855 died young.I do not know who took in the remaining Gregory siblings William Gwynn, Ambrosia E. & Christianna E.
I have no evidence that Jacob Gregory was with his father's oldest sister Mary "Polly" Gregory and her husband Isaac Santee but I haven't researched this thoroughly yet.
As far as cemeteries...Jacob M. Gregory's parents are buried in Benscoter Cemetery near Bloomingdale in Luzerne Co, PA and Anthony Benscoter & wife are buried in Bloomingdale Cem in Ross Twp, Luzerne Co, PA.
Because Jacob & Amy lived in Muhlenburg in Union Twp, there is a strong possibility they are buried in the Marvin Cemetery.This cemetery was in disrepair and some descendants cleaned it up (pre 1980's) and discarded all the loose tombstones.The written cemetery records were taken home by Mr. Marvin to copy but he died and his heirs threw the papers away so there is no written record of this cemetery.I feel strongly my gr-gr-gr-gr-gma Phoebe Moore Huffman who died in 1824 is buried there also but no stone was found in the 1980's although her father'sstone was still there.
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