I am so glad you emailed back.No my grandmother was not Della, but I do believe that is my grandfathers first wife.Anita and Robert are my aunt and uncle. (I barely remember Robert and don't exactly remember Anita and couldn't remember thier names until you just mentioned them)There are about 25+ years between them and my father. All the documents I have, has him listed as Clyde, except in my grandmother's diary.The age matches perfect and I am now convinced too that this is the same person.I know at one time my grandmother, Lillian, lived in Muncie, because that is where they lived until shortly after my dad arrived. They later lived in Lagrange, Lagrange County, where I was born.Unfortunately "Clyde" passed the day I was born and never meet him. He and my grandmother are both buried in Lagrange.Thank you....after 6 years...I found my lead!