Yes.My great-grandfather was a Frederick Shillinger.The family legend is that he (or his father) was a "von Schilling" of Baden-Baden, Germany.He ran away from home to avoid conscription in the local ducal army, and for that reason changed his name by dropping the "von" and the "c" from "Schilling," and added an "er."
Frederick Shillinger raised a family in Pennsylvania.After the death of his wife he migrated west to a farm area outside Butler, Missouri on the west side of the state near Kansas City, married and raised another family.My grandfather was Harry Heckler Shillinger from this Missouri family.
Frederick Shillinger believed so strongly that no man should own another human being that he volunteered for service in the Civil War even though he was past middle age.His uniform was still in the family in the 1940s, and my father, Frederick Virgil Shillinger, longed to have it willed to him, but that did not happen.
"Hattie" sounds familiar to me, but I am not certain.The name I remember in "Aunt Bessie," the youngest member of that generation.
It is late at night and genealogy material is not available at the computer.If this person sounds like the ancestor you are seeking, I will be happy to hear from you.