I do remember my mom saying that Grandmas name was indeed Hazel. I heard that Buck passed under dubious circumstances but I've learned to take whatever my mom has told me with a grain of salt. I'm no longer in touch with her. So I can't get anymore info from her. I've met Santino, Bowman and Cookie. But that was I'd say early to mid 90's. You mention my sister Teresa and Marlina. But to be completely honest I only know of my younger sister Paula. I have no idea who you are talking about.
My sister is the one that told me about your reply as I've long forgotten about this post. If you have any other info, that would be greatly appreciated. You can contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org.