After I saw what I had written I understand the confusion. My GGrandma was Martha Jane "Hale" Selby. She is the one who married James Selby. Her Mother was Matilda "Snelling" Hale. I don't have any info about her Brothers/Sisters, Mom and Dad and so on back in history.
I have yet to go onto Bob's site. Bob and my Mom are 1st Cuzns.