Hello Daniel, I looked in the 1920 and 1930 census' and found a Donald Stamey in the household of Glenn and Fern Stamey in Norton, KS. He had a sister named Lucille. If any of these names sound familiar or if you want more info e-mail me at email@example.com.
I come from the North Carolina Stamey line. Both of our Stamey lines originated in Pennsylvania. Mine migrated to NC in the mid 1760's. Yours seems to have went west some time after the Civil War. I don't know where our lines merge in PA.