This is what I have from the Baltimore MD Census!Could be your Edward J.???I could not connect with Detmar!
1850, Census, 3nd Ward, Baltimore City, MD, page, 384, 1281/1432 Stansbury Wm. 30 M W Ship 1000 MD Harriet 30 F W MD Sarah L. 8 F W MD Edw. J. 6 M W MD John L. 5 M W MD Wm. E. 2 M W MD
1860, Census, Ward 1, Baltimore City, MD Stansbury William 41 M Ship Carpenter 600/200 MD Harriett 35 F Sarah 17 F Seemstress Edward 16 M William T. 25 M George W. 9 M Charles W. 6 M Henry 2 M
1870, Census, 3 Ward, Baltimore City, MD, page 419, 119/150 Stansbury, William 52 M W Ship Carpenter 1700/400 MD Harriett 40 F W Keeping House MD Susan ? 24 F W Seemstress MD Edward 25 M W Ship Carpenter MD William 22 M W Carpenter MD George 19 M W At Home MD Charles 15 M W At trade school H. Painting MD Henry 12 M W At School MD Mary 5 F W At School MD