I notice that you mention a relative by the name of Peter BURT Stenhouse on one of your earlier replies. Do you have a connection with the BURT families?
I have started researching into the families of my two cousins, one of whom lives in Falkirk and whose maiden name was SPENCE. Thomas Robert Duncan Spence married my father's sister Annie. His Grandfather, Thomas Spence, married Jean/Jane Ross Dempster, whose parents were John Dempster and Elizabeth BURT. Elizabeth's parents were Alexander Burt and Jean Ross.
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