Nancy,I'm looking back through some family notes written by William Mount Tallman, and I found a Geo?? Spader and Maria E. Jenks under a column of marriages, but it's hard to read his writing.The day is a 29, the month looks like Aug or July, no year is written.There's also a Sarah M. Spader, an Anna E. Spader and Albert M??ford (Jul/Aug 20/69). Under deaths, he has: Wm Spader Aug 24, 1849 Lora Nash Spader, Mch 4/9 Margaret E. Dec 4/99 (listed as mother) Edgar A. (I'm not sure ifhe's a Spader) Wm S Spader Geo M Spader Apr 11, 1890 Alice Feb 26, 1889 Catherine Spader, March 20, 1896
I also find the parents of Mary AM Spader, who married William Mount Tallman, listed as Wm. Spader (d. Aug 24, 1849) and Margaret Rhodes (d. Dec 4/99)
Under "wife's family" he has William and Margaret listed again, with children William Smith Spader (d. Nov 19/72, unmarried); George Washington married Maria Jenks; Willie (living whenever he wrote this); Ida (living) - I'm not sure on that; Lora Nash married - no children; Sarah married Paschal Bertini - no children; Catherine; Anna - married Albert Morford - had a daughter.There's a Minnie listed next, but I can't tell if that's the daughter of Anna, or a child of William and Margaret.
This is written on the back of a desk calendar dated December 1897.I got this information from my aunt, who may have more.She's found some old diaries, but I'm not sure who wrote them.They're too old to copy.