Thanks for the extra info. It all seems to fit with VR and other records that are available.
Jerry was certainly in OH by 1810 - he is mentioned on the Tax List, so what you say about the birth place of children suggest a move between 1805 and 1807.
Where was he born? The 1850 census says NY and that is certainly possible - there are lots of TIBBITS in that state. MD is possibility - there is a TIBBETT (not related) family there for several generations. I am not sure where the possible suggestion of CT has come from.
I'm working on lots of these families, so will keep looking out for relevant info.