Have been trying to locate Mary Tidbury prior to her wedding on 9th October 1865 to Edward William Basson in Addlestone. Her marriage certificate gives her father as William Basson, occupation Gardener and her occupation as "service". She is said to be of full age and a spinster.
In 1871 census she is named as "Jane Basson" aged 28 born in Clapham, Surrey. In 1881 aged 36 and 1891 aged 47 she is named as "Mary Basson" born in Clapham Surrey. In 1901 she is aged 58 her place of birth is Middlesex.
Have not managed to find her in 1851 or 1861 census.