Hi Peter, My Gt. Grandfather John Newman married Frances Victoria Tomalin in 1865.On their marriage cert. Frances's father was Matthew Tomalin, Hairdresser, married to Frances Archer.The address given was Harpenden.Matthews father was also Matthew married to Ann Haddon.It would appear that your Matthew was a brother of Frances Victoria.I haven't done a lot of research on the Tomalins although Anne Singleton has, she is my 3rd cousin once removed.
Frances Victoria was in West Ham in 1881, down as Victoria Frances Newman, with her children. John Newman was away in Clacton as he was a Civil Engineer/ Well Borer.