hi maggie, guess what i am your cousin. Nelly Kate was my great grandmother did you know she was full blooded cherokee indian. Charlie lee is my grand pa my mom linda totherow is his daughter. his wife ethel just passed away last month.This is so cool. where are you from? email me I can tell you lots about this family and introduce you to alot of totherows.I will have to find out nellys parents names but i can.who are your parents if charlie lee is your grandpa and mine too i dont understand how i do not know you.