I have just found another daughter Margaret b. 1839 to Bernard and Mary (Traynor) Mulholland in Brockville Ont. So they had to marry before that but I can't find the marriage. Perhaps Patrick (who m. Jane Murray) was my Bernard's cousin as I can find no family that has both names. I found a Patrick Mulholland who m. Glasgow and a Patrick b. 1818 in Dublin Ire. whose father was a Bernard. My Mulhollands were supposed to be Irish by way of Scotland. My Bernard and Mary had Margaret, Catherine,1840 Elizabeth 1842 and Letitia b. 1848.