Hi. I am not quite sure how this will help you, but it may help me a bunch. You say that Clarissa Mead was born in 1843 but I was on this site http://www.interment.net/data/us/ks/wilson/trimmell.htmhttp://www.interment.net/data/us/ks/wilson/trimmell.htm and it states that she was 66 years old at the time of death, which would make her born in 1827. I have her deathdate down as Jul 19, 1843. If you have any info on this please let me know. Thanks.