This first response from Joe Truelove to your original note was to look on my web site for Elijah Truelove's family.
His advise is correct. The family connections you are looking for are on that web site. There are a lot of updates that need to be added and will be done over the four five weeks. You should check back later as well.
Today I saw Dillie Ray Truelove at the Truelove reunion near Duncan--held each year seond Sunday in June. He is the son of Leonard Prissie Truelove and Eunice Baker, probably brother to your father/grandfather. He lives in South Carolina.