No, these are not relatives. They were school friends of my great grandmother Minnie Lobstein b.1867 in Buffalo. Here is what they wrote: Emma Uebelhoer:"If scribbling in albums Remembrance securesWith the greatest of pleasure I'll scribble in yours.March 26th 1878" Lydia Uebelhoer: "On this page I find a spot to write the word forget me not.Mar 26th 1878"
Their entries prove prophetic;we "remember" them more than 100 years later
Do you have other Buffalo surnames we could compare? Do you know the neighborhood of the Jacob Uebelhoer family?