I don't know whether I can help, the dates aren't quite right and my information is limited. I decend from Darius Dexter Ure born in Salem NY Nov 9 1848. His father was Hosea Ure born in Pompey NY Sept 10 1825 and was married to Rhoda A Howard (m. 1847). I have a note that Hosea died Aug 25 1914 and is buried at Woods Mills Cemetery (I'm not sure where that is). Hosea's father was William Ure (d. ca 1842) and he was married to Susan Drake (d. ca 1842). Rhoda A. Howard died in 1849 and Hosea married two times after that. Rhoda's father was Ward Dexter Howard. If you find this is the connection you're looking for let me know and maybe we can fill in the blanks.