Hi Aaron, I noticed recently a probable connection with my mother's side of the family. Her father was Robert James Jay, & the Jays mentioned in a 'hot match' do in fact match up:- Robert JAY Alfred JAY Lydia JAY Herbert JAY
The above-mentioned 'Robert' most likely being Robert James' father.
I look forward to further correspondence on our connections. My family tree "Brettoner" you should be able to read here, although I'm not at present a paid-up Genes Reunited member.