I believe you are looking for Erastus BLIOS Van Buekirk. His grandmoter was Welthea Blios who md. Truman Herrington.
His father John B Van Buskirk md 1st a Mary unk. (perhaps Bowers) she died 1/25/1849 25y10m24dleaving twins James and Jane b. Dec 1845 and Amanda F. 1847-1852
He married 2nd Mary Herrington (Allen)widow of Leonard Allen. Erastuse Blios was their first child together.
I do not know who Johns B. VBs parents are, at this time but I believe he had a brother Lawrence b. 1813 who md a Sally M. (Possibly MASON)they appear next door to each other 1850 Tioga Co PAJohn dies 1862he is buried with both wives and some of his children,
Vanbuskirk John B.9/15/1862 47 yr Vanbuskirk Mary1/25/1849 25y10m24d w/o J. B. Vanbuskirk Mary 1818 1903 Vanbuskirk Arminda11/8/1868 9y8m22d d/o J. B. & Mary Vanbuskirk Jane R.9/20/1852 7y9m18d d/o J. B. & Mary Vanbuskirk Amanda F.10/20/1852 5y5m d/o J. B. & Mary Name of Cemetery: Church of Christ, Ogdensburg Cemetery Deeded As Ogdensburg Cemetery