she was my mother on my birth certificate barbara lee wachtel she said she was born in bronxville ny.she died july 91 under a .different name.she had a cousin named bruce wilcox. i was born 12 17 71. inever knew any of my mother's family or her history . bruce wilcox worked for trw and lived in mannhatten beach ca.i would like to know more about my mother and the family she never spoke of? any help would be great. i think her date of birth is 3 28 1937.thank you!