Hello... I live here in CA and made a visit to the cemetery in Ukiah to take photos of Alfred's grave.I have 12 photos to send to anyone who wishes them.The headstone is about 10 feet tall and salutes Alfred, his second wife Mary, and their son Willis.
Here is the info on the headstone.
Alfred Wages; Feb. 16, 1826-Nov. 6, 1909; Dear Father With a Leinetent(that is how it is spelled on headstone) hand, this to thy memory given; while by one-by-one our household band God will unite in Heaven.
For Mary: Mary Wages; Aor 14, 1851-Mar 20, 1912 Dear mother in earth's theray (that's what it looks like) paths; how long thy feet have trod to find at last a peaceful rest safe in the arms of God.
For Willis: Willis Wages; Nov 21, 1882-June 25, 1907; weep not for him, he is not dead but sleepeth.