My wife's mother was Torfreda (aka Freda) Wakeling b. Grays 1920. Her Grays siblings were Gwen (emigrated to Canada) Jim, Eileen, Pat (f. moved to Bristol), Fred and Sylvia. She is interested in finding anticedents, thought to be Jim b. c1887 and possibly Isobel O'Regan b. c1889. There is a James Cyril and Isabell on 1911 census we believe, they are married 1 year but in Southend. Hopefully to find previous generations of both families and more. There is believed to be a Green in previous generations too.