my grandfather was Udo Waldecker, brother of Emmanuel, Karl, and Nelda. Udo was married to Grace Adelaide Gascoigne. The marriage of Udo and Grace produced Charles Dwayne, Margaret Elizabeth, William Bernerd, Grace Adelaide, and Robert Alvin. I am Grace's daughter. I see Nelda at the family reunion each summer in Richmond. She is the daughter of Nelda Roesier Waldecker and Frank Wood.