I am fortunate, I did ask him everything I could ask and he told me everything he knew and shared everything he had on Weatherwax and I was able to get some work done to share with him.
It has been so hard the past few weeks. For some reason working on the family history has helped me allot the past week or so. I even put info in find a grave site.
I email mom daily and go visit atleast once a week, it is very hard on her but she is doing well. The stregnth she showed us kids thru it all was amazing to me. I will give her as much of what she gave me as I can :)
I am oldest of four, and I am also the only one interested in our family history, besides my mom, she has done allot of work on her side.
In my heart, I know dad is in a better place and I know that his pain is gone, and I do know in time I will heal. It was a long 4 months and allot of pain and suffering for us all and to watch him go thru what he did was horrible but I try to focus on the good and the memories.