Hi Jim, I can only answer through this forum, so I hope you see it. Here's what I have on Abner & Sarah's children: Joseph b.7/25/1756 d.2/28/1814; Abner b. 1758 d.3/3/1814; Stephen b.1761 d.2/24/1814 (buried along w/wife and son Northrup 13 yrs old in Union Cemetery Plainfield Ct. Wife Rebecca d. 2/20/1814. Stepehen has Revolutionary War marker on grave. Happy b.? d.3/4/1814, Happy married and had a son (jump to #212 on this forum to read about that). That's all I know about them. Do you know where Oliver and his wife Elizabeth are buried? I have searched the cemeteries in Delhi,NY...so far no luck. Maybe in a family cemetery somewhere.