Richard Wildey born born 1689 Long Island, New York Patience Tatum she died in Newburgh New York in 1767 I have not found the other children either. Just Thomas who married Sara Griffin and then married her sister Judith Griffin. Key maybe finding a will from Patience.They usually mention any living children. Maybe if you google her name and ask for her will. A lot of this stuff is out out in the internet in the Wildey family history for instance.