I'm also looking for the Wildey/Wilding ??? family in Tarrytown area of New York about 1665 or so.I am descended from one Marjorie/Maidgeri Wildey/Wilding born about 1668; mar. first to Robert or Hendrick Scissum/ Sysy/ Chisem/ Chisholm?????; 2nd to Patrick Scott b. 1665, son of William Janse Scott and Margaret Jacobse.They lived in the Kingston/Tarrytown, N.Y. areas. I don't know anything else about her, except that she re-married after Patrick's death about 1706??? to Adam Van Alstyn.