Hi Marcia, Seeking first name of the WILLCOX immigrant possibly Stephen WILLCOX, Edward WILLCOX, etc. from whom I descend.
1st generation [earliest] John H. WILLCOX born 1786 Groton, CT m. Sarah or Sally WILLIAMS [born ca 1787 Stonington, New London, CT], moved to New York abt. 1828 and he died 12 Feb. 1869 in Rome, Oneida, NY. [I have 1860 Rome, Oneida, NY census]
Obituary of John WILLCOX states that he was President and Treasurer of Rome New York Cheese Manufacturing Society, and President of Oneida County Agricultural Society.He was a member of the Baptist Church and enjoyed nature.
2nd generation ~John H. WILLCOX, Jr. born ca 1824 married Roselinda UNKNOWN MAIDEN NAME, had 2 children, and he died 12 Feb. 1869;
~Sarah Ann WILLCOX born 4 March 1826 in Stonington, New London, CT, married 17 Oct. 1850 Merritt GOUGE and she died 8 March 1904 in Trenton, Oneida, NY. [She was my maternal 2 great grandmother];
~Phobe WILLCOX born ca 1825 in Stonington, New London, CT, married Samuel GRIFFITH of Avon, IL;
~Stephen WILLCOX born 1826 in Stonington, New London, CT, married ca 1851 Laura WESTERTT [spelling?] of IL;
~William O. WILLCOX born 1827, Stonington, New London, CT,married 1) Phobe, married 2) Charlotte, and he died in 1914 in Triangle, Broome, NY [I have 1860 Rome, Oneida, NY census];
~Joseph WILLCOX born ca 1827 in Stonington, New London, CT, m. Jane FULLER; and
~Laura or Cynthia WILLCOX born ca 1829 in Trenton, Oneida, NY, married Joseph HEMITT of Petersburg.
Additions and corrections are welcomed. THANKS :) so much, Jan Jordan in Vermont