Hello Pauline. Sorry delayed response again - I've been away. I would be interested in the family details from Australia if it's not too much trouble for you to send them. It would probably be easier to do this via direct contact rather than through this Forum? You can email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Shame about the headstone inscriptions. As you say, it seems that County Record Office visits are called for. I think that I'll start with the Wiltshire office in Trowbridge, as it's only about 12 miles from me. I noticed that it has an Open Day next Saturday (May 11th) from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. I hope to make a start there then.