You may already have this and I don't know if it will help. Winchell genealogy 2'nd Ed. 1917:
p.91 Thomas (Benjamin, Jonathan, Robert) b. Windsor CT 16 dec 1702. Prob. the same who m. Lydya Hodges at Norton MA 7 dec 1732.
All Born Norton MA Sarah b. 2 May 1733 Thomas b. 28 Feb 1736, d. 7 March 1736 Lydya b. 28 Feb 1736 Hannah B. 23 June 1738 Marcy [sic] b. 17 Dec 1740 Abigail b. 2 Sep 1744
Addendum p.viii Mary m. Hezekiah Willard 15 March 1764, Norton MA; d. 29 Nov 1794, Briston R.I.
6 kids listed
p. 484, Isolated Individuals
Abigail (unknown parents)m. Springfield MA, 7 Dec 1749, Reuben Woolworth of Suffield, They lived in W. Springfield ch: Abigail Flavior Ruth Michael Eli
Birth dates are given for the children of this marriage. The marriage info is slightly different than yours. In listing Abigail, Winchell notes "Compare 180". In the book, 180 is one of six unnamed daus. of Daniel Winchell (jonathan, Jonathan, Robert) b. Suffield 1709 and d. Hadley MA. Children are Jonathan, Reuben, Polly and "six daughters"
Interestingly, the next family listed in the book is the same Thomas and Lydia that you mention.