Lavina's father was Andrew Jackson Winders,b. VA April 17, l827. Her mother was his first wife and I do not know her name,yet.Her s.mother was Delila Nestlerode.Yes, they did live in MO.Six of her children were born in MO and the last two in OK. Historical Soc. Museum at Chandler OK has a great deal on the Swinford family.