HI Judson, I have done nothing more on the Withams. Lydia is not mine, but it is a good deed. Did I respond before because I do not think I was notified that you had made a follow-up! Thank you. I will print all this out and see what "clicks". There were Withams in Kittery early...in that part of Kittery that in 1810 became Eliot. Are you related to them? I have some information on them but not a lot because they didn't seem to deed, etc. I am interested in a James Witham who married Olive Black in 1783. I have info on them if you need it.
Thanks for the reply. If I did not reply before, I am sorry.