Hi Linda Your father and Alan's were first cousins so you are second cousins. Alan would very much like to talk to you his telephone number is 0208 363 0525. He lost his wife Ann in 1988 and brought up 3 lovely children, only to lose his beautiful daughter Emma in a road crash 4 years ago. I tell you, so that you might understand that Alan has been through a great deal of pain, but is a very special friend to myself and my family. I would appreciate it if you would let Alan tell you himself.