May I ask what your husband's grandparents names are? The JW "Son" Wortham that you referred to in the first posting, is who my grandfather was named for, and I believe was my grandfather's uncle. My grandfather was also named JW and always went by the name "Bud" (He died this past April and is in the Manila cemetery also). My grandmother was a part of the Cullum family in Manila.
If we find a common Manila connection, I would be interested in knowing more about Wayne, Co.