We are finding this one a bit perplexing! There are two of us with extensive records of the Wyes in Surrey but we cannot fit this Richard into it! Not only that, there does not appear to be a Richard Wye of that age, born in Surrey, in the 1881 census.
We have managed to fit in nearly ALL the Wyes in the area in some way or another and this is frustrating! We can trace most of them back to a single couple.
Could you send me ALL of the details from the marriage certificate, including parish/registry office, father's names, abodes etc and we'll see what more we can do.