In answer to your inquiry of 2002. James Wyly's first wife's name was Barbara. I have not been able to find her last name. This information comes from Soldiers and Patriots of the American Revolution Buried in Tennessee, DAR. James married a second time, ,January 16, 1828. The woman's name was Mary Wittenberger. Thomas Durham married Wyly's daughter, Margaret. They had several children. The son, Harris Kinzie Durham was named after John Harris Kinzie, one of Chicago's pioneer citizens. Thomas Durham also named one of his daughters, Barbara, after his wife's mother.