TALES MY MOTHER TOLD ME

 

My family tree has a generation missing. No, not lost through carelessness, as Lady Bracknell might have supposed, but because my closer ancestors cover a long time span. Where most people have great grandparents, I have grandparents. One of my mother's grandfathers was born in 1812, the other in 1817. The latter lived until 1908 and my mother could remember him well. The reason for this is that for three generations my forebears were the youngest children of large families.

 

So memories could go back a long way, and my mother often talked about her childhood in Scarborough and the things which had made an impression on her. To my way of thinking this is living family history.

 

She was Norah Hopwood, youngest child of Joseph Lonsdale Hopwood, master grocer of Queen Street. He was also town councillor and alderman and a leading member of the Primitive Methodist Chapel in St Sepulchre Street. A very busy man, in fact, as was pointed out in an article from the Scarborough Magazine of about 1895. "To find Mr Hopwood, one should first call at the shop (then in Newborough) then at the Town Hall and then at the Chapel". However, the interview with this man of public life does not tell us what my mother told me; that her father's last job before bedtime was to go and see if "Charlie" was alright. Charlie was the delivery van horse, and the entrance to his stable can still be seen at the side of the Queen Street shop (now Betta Motoring). A gentle side to this very strict man who was chairman of the committee responsible for abolishing the famous and ancient Scarborough Fair. He refused to allow his children to visit a theatre or any entertainment not connected with the Chapel. Of course, the result of this was that Norah and her sister would slip off to see a silent film for 2d when their parents were otherwise occupied. The Pierrots too were frowned on; "low life fellows" said father. But the family were much amused to hear father revise his opinion after meeting Mr Catlin the Pierrots' proprietor. He was admitted to be very pleasant and courteous.

 

In the January 1995 issue of the Banyan Tree I was interested to read that on a Scarborough walkabout Marie Belfitt described the burning of a house in Queen Street, in which six children died. Although only seven years old at the time, my mother remembered this vividly. But she told me an extension to the story. Apparently many of the townspeople firmly believed that the fire was not an accident, and that the father of the children was responsible for their deliberate murder. There was so much feeling about this that a lynch mob of the rougher elements from Dumple (that very rough street -no one went down Dumple by night) set out to get the man. This gang was led by a Scarborough character called "Giant Mary" and this huge woman carried an axe. Regrettably, this is as far as mother's remembrance went. I would very much like to know if the mob did catch up with the supposed arsonist, or if there was a confrontation between them and the local police. I suspect the latter, and a tame ending.

 

Happier anecdotes were about summer days; Sunday school outings, perhaps to Forge Valley, or Cayton Bay; going to the Strawberry Gardens where the fruit was eaten off big cabbage leaves; and the thrill of seeing the first ever aeroplane. While hanging out washing. This must have been the one which flew over the town in 1912. Then there was the Shrove tide skipping on the Foreshore, and always new clothes for Whit Sunday.

 

There were day to day happenings. The house was cleaned from top to bottom twice a year, Especially hated by the girls were the venetian blinds on the large front windows (still there over the motoring shop) but Councillor Hopwood entertained a great deal, and his wife Caroline insisted on everything being in spotless order. Norah's only brother, another Joseph Lonsdale, but known as Lons was a mischievous lad. One of his pranks was to put a dead mouse in the pneumatic overhead change carrier in the shop, (probably only older members will remember these), I have copies of advertisements for the shops in Newborough and Queen Street, "Mr Hopwood is most solicitous to secure the confidence of his extensive and high class clientele", I expect Tesco and Safeway feel exactly the same way. but express themselves rather differently!

 

Norah's sister Ethel, a very clever needlewoman, was apprenticed as a milliner at Rowntrees, the draper's establishment. An apprentice in her first year received S5 a week. However, the workroom manageress considered that "Miss Hopwood should forego the payment as her family were comfortably off" .This caused deep offence. I have many photographs of Norah, Ethel herself and other girls in the enormous, elaborate hats so fashionable then.

 

Norah remembered wearing mourning for the death of Queen Victoria in 1901. and again for King Edward in 1910, Also of course, the 1914 bombardment of Scarborough by German warships, in which a family friend, Mrs Merryweather. was killed while helping someone into shelter, Then there was the occasion when Boyes Remnant Warehouse was destroyed in a huge conflagration, just opposite the Queen Street shop. I think the family found this more terrifying than the bombardment.


A few doors away at 9 and 10 Queen Street Norah's uncle William Hopwood had a furniture shop. We should probably now say antique dealer, as he certainly had some very fine things. One of the rooms was called the Oak Room, being panelled and furnished in oak. At the end of the cricket season Lord Londesborough, that great patron of sport, would hire this room to entertain the Gentlemen Players, the food being sent from Londesborough Lodge in the Crescent. Of course the Hopwood girls heard all about the occasion; the footmen waiting at table; and especially the sumptuous food provided. Fare at home was good but plain, a tin of fruit out of the shop was a treat for Sunday tea only.

 

I mentioned Norah's grandfather who was born in 1817. He was Thomas Bridekirk Varey, a fishing boat skipper, He died in 1908, and his wife, another Caroline, in 1906, They lived with the Hopwoods in Queen Street during their last years. When Norah went to their room the old lady would say "Who's this? and her husband would reply "Our Carrie's little lass., Strange that I can hear those words so clearly, spoken 90 years ago by people I never knew, Grandmother had lost her memory; sometimes she would wander off to look for the house where she had lived as a girl in Merchant's Row. Mother often told this story. It was some years after her death when I got interested in family history (one of the deepest regrets of my life -she would have loved it) and eventually I looked at the 1841 census returns for Merchant's Row. And there it was, 150 years of personal memories handed down, abridged in a moment. "Caroline Flinton, age 17". Just as my mother told me.

 

 

Miss C. Mosey, Flat No.8, 7 St. Gregory's Road, Stratford upon Avon, CV 37

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The Banyan Tree No 64 October 1995