Geraldine Valot Orr-Bonstein

I am trying to find info on Geraldine Valot Orr-Bonstein, she was the daughter of Merlin H Valot & Bertha Clapper, she married Gilbert Orr and had two children, Gilbert and Gayle, she married Ken Bonstein after Gilbert died and it is said she brought Ken's ashes back here to Covina Calif and they were buried with her beside her first husband Gilbert Orr... Ken was my brother and he died 4 July 1993 in Mo. and our dad died 18 july 1993 Covina, Calif. I would really appreciate any help.We didn't find out that Ken was our brother until they both died, we even had talked with him a few times, Bill never told us he was our 1/2 brother, Bill's other children are our half sister's also and I have been able to find some of them.If any one has any info, please let me know.biblgirl@charter.netwe would like to pay our respects to Gerry and all.I have been told that Ken took good care of Gerry and she took good care of him.He died at Gastanade Lake [I hope thats how it is spelled?] in Missouri.
Thanks
Tanya Bonstein Johnson