Since posting in 2001, I have learned that Millie Shockey was the first wife of Robert Lindon, b. 1838.His second wife was Lucinda Haddix.
Millie Shockey was the mother of seven children by Robert Lindon, including Robert, b. 1879. Don't know if his middle name were Shockey or not; have one source that had "M" for middle initial, but no name given. Some sites are listing him as "Jr." and the father as "Sr."
Millie did NOT die at Robert's birth, as the family tale indicated for many years.Millie was still alive when 1880 census was taken, and Robert was listed as being 6 months old as of 1 June 1880. (This makes him born in 1879.)
Apparently, Millie died not long after the census was taken, and Robert married Lucinda, as Lucinda'a first child by Robert, [Sr.] was born in 1881.
Hope this clears up confusion.
I still would like to know Millie's death date and place of burial.Also marriage date to Lucinda, and Lucinda's death date and place of burial. Also Robert Sr's burial place.
Old Kentucky court house records need to be researched, and I don't live in Ky.Any help will be appreciated.