The Papendick and Failing families are both prominent names in Grayling and Crawford County.Many family members from both families are still living.
The ones you are looking for are probably buried in Elmwood Cemetery, Grayling.Contact the City of Grayling at 1020 City Boulevard, Grayling, or phone (989) 348-2131.
For death records, contact the county clerk at the Crawford Co. Courthouse, 200 W. MIchigan Ave., Grayling, MI 49738, or phone (989) 344-3200.
I hope this helps.