Hey Dian, I know of a Tamar born Jan 10 1798 / died Apr 28, 1877 and married to Edwin Odom. Edwin was born Feb 20, 1796/ died Jan 5, 1870. Beside Edwin and Tamar is buried Febie Jane Odom died Feb 21, 1879. All are buried in Bay Springs Baptist Church Cemetery not too far from Patrick SC in Chesterfield County. Could the Tamar that you are inquiring about have married more than once?