I have been on Clay Abrams' website, but I want to confirm that that Amanda is the same Amanda as my great-grandmother.I can only do that with a date of birth.Do you have any search engine that I can use? It seems possible because her mother and father according to family search. com etc. that she was born in 1848, parents married in 1847.Are you from this line? I live in East Rockaway, L.I., N.Y. and it seems so many of these Abrams were from this nearby area. (Rockaways, Hewlett, Baldwin, RVC).Thanks for attempting to help.Hope you know something more.All birth records start after 1881 and haven't gotten census' yet.Also don't know if Abrams (Ben and Mary Jane, if parents stayed in Rockville Centre, just summering in Suffolk, Blue Point or Bay Shore?) or moved out there.