Your grandparents are not familiar to me. I find it curious they are buried next to my grandfather. He had a cousin Jesse(son of Benjamin) who was born in 1848 so that doesn't work. Are you familiar with the lineage of James Adams and Agnes wilson of Hopkins County, Kentucky whose offspring settled all over that area (Izard, Marion, Searcy, Baxter)? Also, I have a copy of the 1860 and 1870 census for Izard County and cannot find any Jesse Adams listed. Do you know where he was born? If you will contact me direct, I can share some of that with you. Do you live in the Arkansas area?