I know this is not the Emma you are searching for, but I was hoping you might have run across these names.I do not know what relationship the two AFFHOLTER children had to the OAKS family but they are buried in the family cemetery. Maybe this information might help someone?
Graves listed in OAKS family cemetery
OAKS, HENRY SMITH 09/01/1845--12/08/1909 OAKS, JONAS 07/04/1812--12/18/1879 OAKS, MARY B. 07/16/1812--_________ OAKS, GEORGE B. 01/00/1850--10/31/1872AGE 22Y 9M OAKS, REUBEN P. 01/29/1853--01/30/1871S/O J. & M.B. OAKS, SAMUEL LOVE 10/18/1842--11/11/1856S/O J. & M.B. COOK, JESSEY W. 05/27/1829--05/11/1865 REED, ZELA M. 11/15/1856--06/13/1883W/O J. O. AFFHOLTER, EMMA 10/23/1873--10/28/1876AGE 3Y 5D AFFHOLTER, AMBROSE T. 07/15/1870--09/28/1875AGE 5Y 2M 13D JENNINGS, MARGARET (OAKS) 00/00/1837--00/00/1887AGE 50Y M/O CLARENCE