Hello Karen, I have looked through the little I have found about my Aldens but I am not sure if there could be some relationship between our relatives or not. My gt gt grandmother was born Sarah Alden and her brother John could have father your Caroline but he would only have been 16 (still possible). After 1871 the Alden family disappears from Old Buckenham. Sarah was married to Robert Jolley and living in O.Buck. on the 1881 census and her father Robert had died in 1872. I have sat all night trying to find the rest of the family on the 1881 census but to no avail. I did find Sarah's mum Mary though, she was living in sussex with her daughter Eliza who was a Draymans widow. Mary was born in Banham, near O. Buck. but the census read that she was born in Balham. I would love to know what happened to the other members of the family, obviously the girls probably got married but there is no sign of David and the nearest match to John, is your John in Pulham. I will makea note of your family names and I will contact you if I ever find any info that you may find helpful. Good luck with your research Sonia.