Information from my update of E.B. Cole's 1908 book, The Descendants of James Cole of Plymouth, given to me by Julie Fewsmith, a descendant of Phoebe's brother Joseph: Phoebe Cole m. Matthew Alexander in Warren Co., KY, on 12 Dec 1811. He was b. 23 Feb 1779 in Mecklenburg Co., NC, the son of Andrew Alexander and Margaret (Alexander) Alexander (cousins). Matthew d. in Allen Co., KY, by 1850.