Are you still looking for information on Reuben, son of William and Esther (Brown) Alexander?I have information that I am happy to send you.
I also have an ancestor named Reuben and also from North Carolina. Yours was from Cabarrus County and mine from neighboring Iredell County. To make it more confusing, they were almost the same age. That's why I've collected information on your ancestor. Are you still interested?