Welcome on board cousin.I am descended from James Appleby and his second wife, Nancy Lane Bond Appleby.
Tandy Lane is buried in the Appleby family plot in Polk county, MO.While my pictures do not show the writing on the headstone, James and his first wife are also buried there and that printingis legible, barely.
In and around Springfield, you have many cousins.Especially, if you talk about James' uncle David and Catherine Bell's children.
There is also a third cousin of mine from the same marriage, who descends from a sister of James Matthew, who married an Anderson.
Do you have any information on Amos (Amon) Bond?I have not found any valid info.I will have to look it up, but Jesse Lane is not Tandy's ancestor.