Aylings in Rowner, Gosport, Hampshire, England

In 1850 Martha Isabella Chamberlain married John Ayling. They had following children:
John Parkis, Joseph Chamberlain, Mary Isabella, Florence, Julia, Rose Emmeline, Philip & Florence Grange.
They leased "Grange Farm" Rowner. Marthas parents were:
Joseph Ayling Chamberlain & Mary Hobbs (married 21-01-1818)
I am guessing that Martha & John were related before mariage....possibly distant cousins as the Ayling name is found on both sides of the family.
Any info regarding this side of the family would be appreciated : )